I love my girl but I miss having sex with her so much - I might see an escort

DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend and I have been together a year and a half and our sex life has already dropped off a cliff. We were having sex a decent amount to begin with but now its really tapered off.

DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend and I have been together a year and a half and our sex life has already dropped off a cliff.

We were having sex a decent amount to begin with but now it’s really tapered off.


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It’s her birthday next month and I wanted to book a nice hotel, but I know we won’t even have sex so don’t exactly feel enthused.

I’m 29 and she’s 31.

I’ve got a million questions and fear she may simply have gone off me but doesn’t know how to break it up.

I feel like we are drifting apart and we certainly argue more than we used to.

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I have fallen in love with her and don’t want to lose her but I miss sex so much.

I’m thinking about visiting an escort to satisfy my needs.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Booking an escort won’t help you answer any of those questions.

Talk to her about how important sex is for you and tell her how you are missing being close to her.

Your girlfriend may be depressed or stressed, which will affect her libido, or perhaps you have relationship issues that need to be sorted.

She may be feeling self-conscious if she’s put on weight, too. But the only way that you will get to the bottom of this is by talking to her.

I’m sending you my support pack Different Sex Drives which explains more.

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